Ladies. Sometimes I sit at home all day waiting for the guy I’m dating to call me. He doesn’t call, he ignores my calls, he ignores my texts, and if I can catch him on a good day when he feels like talking, something cuts the conversation short and he doesn’t return the call. This seems to happen with most of the guys I date if not all. I didn’t understand what the problem was and figured I was doing something wrong.
Was I being too needy? Too emotional? Too “Phat”? Too available? I mean I figured that man for me would just understand that sometimes I get needy and emotional and just want him to be by my side during these hard times. I gave them the best of me in hopes of keeping him around. Some of you can relate to me on this some may not. I had great sex, great cooking skills, gave him money, not only to keep him around but to show him that I was going to stick around too, and also to show that I cared for him. I wanted to be that one who was there for him, you know?
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This is the Go Phat Girl Blog. Where I talk mostly about our struggles with insecurities that tie into the struggles we experience with men. I explain ways to solve some of those problems.
So these guys you pick are assholes. You like assholes, that’s fine. They like PhatGirls because you provide, give great head, give them money or sex whenever they call, and they know you’ll be there when they call a few days maybe weeks later because they figure your self-esteem is so low, that you’ll still be there. When you finally get fed up, they’re on to the next PhatGirl. Yeah straight like that! That is my definition of a PhatGirl. You have to stop doing this to yourselves. Because in the process of trying to keep that man, you harm yourselves. Then YOU hurt after you’ve invested YOUR feelings into what could MAYBE be something? Do you realize that you allowed yourself to be treated like this though? Because the first step is admitting.
So join me in this discussion on how to have a better time as a PhatGirl. I will be sharing some empowering messages with you and some very secret information that most men would hate for you to know about them. So let’s shake some shit up. Even if you are not a PhatGirl by weight and are still a PhatGirl at heart, I would like to share this information with you, and maybe you can share some with me. I am not here to help you lose weight. So let’s leave those discussions to yourselves because I accept you all as you are.